I also dare to attempt, as many ladies before me, find a nice man in here! I am a mother of 3 children, widowed since 5 years and after a long time of mourning and focussing on my children it is time to move on and give myself some new found pleasure as well. My husband has taken good care of us, unfortunately he past away. The loss is terrible. I work in the funeral business so I get reminded daily of these past few years. I’m not looking for a one-time pleasure but also not looking for a new relationship. I just need someone to show me a good time again and help me take my mind of things.