Ok… all right… I’ll take the plunge… there I go… I can really tell you that I find this scary. Still, I hope to find a nice guy. And I think it’s best if I say it right away; I have a 5 year old son. Obviously that is my passion and my life, but well that’s different from a man who will be there for me. Unfortunately I have discovered that as a mother its not exactly easy to find a nice man who can deal with the fact that I have a kid. Do you think that you would have trouble with it as well, then please do not respond. Do you think this is not a problem, do you find my story and my picture appealing, which I truly do hope of course, then I’m also really hoping that you will respond. I will surely tell you some more about me… Oh and my name is Lucillen and I am 43 years old.